The Prevalent Issues Of Surrogate Parenting Essay, Research Paper
The Prevalent Issues of Surrogate Parenting
Surrogate parenting refers to an arrangement between a married couple
who is unable to have a child because of the wife’s infertility and a fertile
woman who agrees to conceive the husband’s child through artificial insemination,
carry it to term, then surrender all parental rights in the child. Often, the
surrogate mother receives compensation for her services. The final step in the
process is typically the father’s acknowledgment of paternity and adoption, with
his wife, of the child. Through surrogate motherhood, a couple desiring a child
need not wait an indefinite number of years for an adoptable baby, as generally
happens at the present time. The married couple obtains a child who is the
husband’s biological offspring- a child for whose existence both husband and
wife can feel responsible.
Surrogate parenting is highly controversial by its very nature.
Nevertheless, surrogate parenting is attracting wide spread attention as a
viable alternative for infertile couples intent on having a child. Contract
surrogacy is officially little more than ten years old, although surrogate
mothering is a practice that has been known since biblical times. In 1986 alone
500 babies had been born to mothers who gave them up to sperm donor fathers for
a fee, and the practice is growing rapidly.
For this reason there are many questions and doubts that arise from this
subject. Often there are many legal difficulties that come about with surrogate
parenting. In some states the contracts that insure the infertile couple the
baby of the surrogate mother mean nothing. This, in turn, can cause huge
problems if the surrogate mother were to change her mind about giving up her
child. Who has the rights to the child in this awful situation? Surrogate
parenting is a wonderful alternative for infertile couples as long as all
party’s involved are educated on the subject and are fully aware of the pros
and cons of this risky business transaction.
Unfortunately laws on surrogate parenting aren’t very helpful.
Increasing numbers of surrogate custody cases are finding their way into the
courtrooms. The most dramatic problem arises when the surrogate mother decides
she wants to keep the baby.Whether she decides early or late in the pregnancy,
at birth, or after the child is born, the ultimate issue is whether she or the
infertile couple have parental rights.
How is the law to respond to this kind of problem? Normally people
would agree that a contract is a contract and therefore the infertile couple
should be the ones to receive the baby. Unfortunately for some of us more
sympathetic people this decision is not that simple. By changing her mind the
surrogate mother is showing maternal feelings that are surely not reprehensible.
Although she has promised to give up the baby her change of heart seems more
understandable than dishonorable. After all how can a woman truly be expected
to know how it will feel to give birth to a child and then have to give it up?
These are very good questions that tend to leave one undecided as to which
party’s demand is justifiable and should be upheld.
Instead of deciding surrogacy issues on the basis of the law and policy
of the states, judges could look for guidance from the U.S. Constitution.
Constitutional arguments can be made on both sides of the classic surrogacy
dispute involving the mother who changes her mind about giving up her child.
Resolution of the constitutional issues will depend ultimately upon assessing
and weighing the various factors at stake. Like decisions based on contract and
criminal law, constitutional decisions will take account of the party’s
interests, the child’s interests, society’s interests, and the effectiveness of
legalization and regulation as opposed to prohibition.
Many Americans remained unaware of these dramas, but virtually everyone
in the United States became aquainted during 1987 with the plight of Mary Beth
Whitehead and ?Baby M?. Mrs. Whitehead was a twenty-nine year old house wife.
She already had two children, and decided she would be the surrogate mother for
a couple by the name of Mr. and Mrs. William and Elizabeth Stern. The Sterns
were 40 and 41 years old. They had been married for 12 years and were childless.
Mrs. Stern had a mild case of multiple sclerosis and was unable to bare any
children.
Although Whitehead promised in the contract that she would form no bond
with the baby, she knew in the delivery room she could not give up her child.
Whitehead ended up kidnapping the new born. The case proceeded to a much-
publicized trial entailing six weeks of testimony and half a million dollars in
legal bills.
Unfortunately many surrogate agreements end with a tragic conclusion
similar to this one. These awful outcomes could be completely avoided if the
law would include in its many clauses, unconditional protection against any
infringement upon the contract between the surrogate mother and the infertile
parents.
In order for surrogacy to work with its initial intent, there can be no
exceptions to this law. Although there will be cases in which the enforcement
of these laws may be seemingly harsh and apathetic, it is the only way that this
wonderful alternative for infertile parents can rightfully continue, without
potentially ruining the lives of all parties involved, most importantly the
child’s.
Although the rights of the infertile couple should be first and foremost,
it is important not to overlook the grievances of the surrogate mother.
Preparation via support groups and individual therapy should be offered to the
surrogate mother before the birth, not only to inform her of the enormous feat
that lay ahead of her, but also to prepare her to deal with the traumas that can
accompany the loss of a child. The importance of informing the surrogate mother
in full that the contract she is to agree to is not reversible, is immense.
Not all cases involving surrogate parenting result in battles for
custody. Ironically, in some cases the battle is to decide which party will be
forced to take the child as their own.
One example of this unusual incidence occurred in 1982. Judy Stiver, a
twenty-six year old house wife agreed to bare a child for forty-six year old
Alexander Malahoff and his wife for a fee of $10,000 dollars. The Malahoffs had
wanted a child to strengthen their marriage, but the couple separated during the
pregnancy. It was then found that the baby would be born with microcephaly- a
handicap that not only left the child with an abnormally small head (which is
usually indicative of retardation), but the infant was also left without a home
to be released into. The natural mother said that she felt no maternal bond
with the baby but she agreed to the intravenous antibiotics to combat the baby’s
life-threatening infection. Malahoff, however, instructed the medical staff to
take no steps or measures to treat the strep infection or otherwise care for the
infant. Both sets of parents then went on to renounce their responsibility for
the child. The hospital obtained a court order authorizing doctors to treat the
baby, and the infection was cured. The baby, however, had no home to be
released into from the hospital and was consequently placed in foster care. The
case became an example of the horrible possibilities such arrangements can
entail when a baby is born with a handicap. This type of incident should be
avoided by making it infinitely clear in the beginning of the process of the
surrogacy agreement that, under no condition will there be a breech of contract.
Although it may seem that all cases end in tragedy, there are in fact
many cases in which the end result is precisely the way all deciding parties had
intended it to be, with the child being placed in a happy and loving environment.
However, despite these many success stories, there are still groups that
advocate the prohibition of surrogacy. One such group is the National Committee
for Adoption. The NCA has been a consistent and outspoken critic of surrogacy
and wants it to be outlawed. They argue that the availability of surrogacy
would cut back on the adoption of existing babies. Perhaps if infertile couples
were unable to employ a surrogate to have a child for them, they would go about
getting a child in some other way, one that would be much more beneficial to
society. They might decide to adopt a child already in existence, or a child
who will be born in any event and who is in need of a home and family.
Fulfilling their parental urges in that way, they would perform an important
service to the child and to society.
Although this is a valid argument, for some couples adoption seems
unavailable. Many couples today are waiting longer before attempting to
conceive and thus are older when they discover that they have a problem.
Especially if they take time to undergo fertility treatments before turning to
adoption, they may find that they are too old to be acceptable to conventional
adoption agencies, which prefer couples under the age of thirty-five. Moreover,
adoption is not as easy today as it has been in the past, and there is a
definite shortage of healthy newborns available for adoption in this country.
Infertile couples would argue that the chance to have a ?normal? child,
and a child as biologically connected to them as possible, is not afforded by
special needs adoption or even the adoption of healthy newborns, and that
although it benefits society more for them to adopt an existing child than to
conceive a new one, the same is true for fertile couples, who nonetheless are
permitted to reproduce without any restriction by the state.
Surrogate motherhood is growing in popularity because it meets the
urgently felt needs of those who resort to it better than any of the
alternatives as they see them. As a consentual arrangement it is as worthy of
legal protection as many others which, formerly suspect, are now taken for
granted. Subject to reasonable regulation, it deserves to take a place among
the growing array of methods available to individuals for the ordering of their
own marital and reproductive lives. Doctrines fitted to other circumstances
should not be allowed to bar the legality or enforcement of surrogate motherhood
agreements.
Works Cited
Chesler, Phyllis. Sacred Bond. New York: Times Books, 1988.
Field, Martha A. Surrogate Motherhood. Massachussetts: Harvard University
Press, 1988.
Keane, Noel P., and Dennis L. Breo. The Surrogate Mother. New York:
Everest House, 1981.
Overvold, Amy Zuckerman. Surrogate Parenting. New York: Pharos Books,
1988.
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