The Girls In Their Summer Dresses–A Review Essay, Research Paper
This story is one that I can certainly understand and have quite intense feelings about. I
must hold my tongue, though, as I do not wish to offend, but to rather offer some insight
to Michael’s side.
Most importantly, Frances should have never asked her husband about looking at
girls. That is a loaded question and one that will ALWAYS lead to an upset female,
possibly with tears. A similar question that warrants the same ending goes like this, “If
you could change one thing about me, what would it be?” Now, how can a guy answer
that without sounding like a total jerk? It is an impossible feat. The guy wants to be nice
and says “nothing.” Good answer? Wrong! The honest answer will make the girl feel
inadequate, ugly, fat, etc. It is a no-win situation for the male victim.
That is what happened to poor Michael. He could not deny that he looks at other
women, and for this he greatly upsets his wife. I have absolutely no sympathy for Frances.
She asked for the truth and she could not handle it. The advice I offer is to deal with it.
Michael loves his wife dearly, but he is still a guy. He sees women everywhere and has
normal thoughts about them. However, that does not mean he doesn’t love his wife or
that he thinks she is not good enough for him any more, but that is the woman thought.
That is the way it is and it will never change. There are just biological differences between
men and women, and this is a big one.
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