more important who arranges the marriage, whether its ourselves or someone
Marriage as we can see is a commitment of spending the rest of our life
So, should we let our parents decide so much for us? To start with, it can
society. They understand people better and thus, understand us better than
all the time.
partner should have our say in it. Of course! How can we marry someone who
we don’t know? Is it possible to stay along with the person and share
look sensible at all. Considering that all of us has the right to decide
for ourselves once we are grown up and matured, the right of the choosing
our life partner should be given to us and no one else unless of course
we forfeit it to someone else.
Coming back to the arguments, we can see around us and observe how many
stay in but unfortunately in many other places the fail to develop into
life-long relationships. The mostly youn g couples complain of
misunderstandings, concealed truths about each other and making a ‘hurried
and emotional decision’, which they regret. Most of them mentally suffer
because of this and their performance goes down. They go on to face social
and psycho logical problems and life-long in some cases.
The only lesson that can be taken from these cases is not to repeat their
have to let our parents arrange our marriages.