to your partner or potential partner. Sharing too much information can be
destructive to a relationship. You might feel better if you spill your guts, but
secrets. Tell only on a need to know basis. You needn’t tell your lover how many
other partners you have had before he came along, and certainly don’t give any
happened that has profoundly affected you and/or will continue to have an impact
on your life, you should tell your partner. He doesn’t have to know that you
otherwise serious relationship, especially if you were married or engaged
before. Withholding information can hurt a relationship if there are serious or
ongoing issues between you and your partner. Money is always a touchy subject
When it comes to family secrets, you may want to tell all in a new relationship,
party after 2 drinks, and sings there’s no place like home. The relationship
between you and your partner might not last, and how would you like everyone in
your Sociology class to know that about dear old Uncle Lou? Keep it to yourself
until they are officially in the family. I know you want "no secrets"
between you two from the start, but think first before you turn out your family.
Only tell secrets that are pertinent to the situation at hand. Let’s move on to
personal secrets. If there are any secrets, he should hear them from you. You
when spilling those little secrets. Don’t tell him secrets just to get them off
your chest, which is not fair to him or yourself. If the secret is a life or
death piece of information, he or she certainly has a right to know. If the
secret is going to come out eventually, your partner should hear it from you.
Revealing secrets can make the two of you closer, but do so slowly and with